Bismillaah (In The Name of Allaah)
Dear Reader,
The surprising, enlightening, and sometimes hard truths we all face after marriage, and how they teach us about what love really means. "...And they lived happily ever after."
What would you say if I told you there is a trend so severe and spread out through the earth so much that many will enter the hell fire, due to practicing it? And what if I told you there is a clear and fair warning to this trend, but most pay no heed to this warning? Would you like to know what I am talking about?
The Prophet Muhammad peace on him, said:
"I looked into Hell-fire, and the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful. ' It was asked, 'Did they disbelieve in (i.e. were ungrateful to) Allah?' He replied, 'They were ungrateful to their husbands and were ungrateful for favors and good deeds done for them. If you had always been good to one of them and then she saw something in you not to her liking, she would say, "I have never seen any good from you at all."
Al-Bukhari
"I saw Paradise and I reached out to take a bunch of its fruits. If I had managed to do so you would have eaten from it until the end of time. And I saw Hell, and I have never seen anything more terrifying. I saw that most of its inhabitants are women". (Mishkaat al-Masabeeh, 1/480)
These hadith here are as a fair and clear warning for women everywhere. So please stop and fear your Lord whom has created you from a blood clot and has stated that we are to give others their mutual rights that we demand from each other. The hell fire is such a hot and horrible place that we cannot even imagine it, but we can try.
Al-Bukhaari reports in his saheeh that Abu Hurayrah said:
"Hell complained to its Rabb, saying "O my Rabb, some parts of me have consumed others." So He allowed it to exhale twice, once in the winter and once in the summer. That is why you find extreme heat (in the summer) and extreme cold (in the winter)".
Al-Bukhaari also narrated from Abu Sa'eed (ra) that the Prophet (peace be upon him' ) said:
"Delay your prayers until it cools down, for the intensity of heat is from the exhaled air of Hell". (Saheeh al-Bukhaari, Kitaab Bad' al-Khalq, Baab Siffaat an-naar wa annaha makhluqah and Fath al-Baari 6/330. The author of Jaami' al-Usool 10/517 attributed these two reports to al-Bukhaari, Muslim and at-Tirmidhi).
The Rights of The Husband From The Wife:
In Islam it is very important that the wife give very much respect to her husband at all times, even when the husband in the wrong. This is the husbands right as Allah (God) has placed them as the maintainers and protectors over women and husbands should deal justly with their wives.
"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means."
Quran 4:34
"But men, have a degree (of responsibility) over them (women)."
Quran 2:228
Narrated Qays ibn Sa'd: The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him' said:
If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah. Reported by: at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Hibban Book 11, Number 2135
In Islam it is completely forbidden for a person to bow down to another; this is reserved for Allah (God) alone. This saying is just for wives to have an idea of their husbands right over them i.e.: The husband has the right to the last word in an argument. The wife should humble herself to her husband even when he is or (she thinks) he is wrong.
The Prophet Muhammad peace on him says:
"The right of a husband over his wife is that even if there is a wound in his body and she licks it, or if his nostrils drip mucous and blood and then she swallows them, she will still never pay her husband his due."
Transmitted by: al-Bazzar and ibn Hibban in his "sahih" authentic
The Prophet Muhammad peace on him said:
"Make sure that you obey your husband, because he is your Paradise or Hell-Fire (i.e. if you obey him you will enter Paradise, but if you disobey him you will enter Hell-fire.)
Transmitted by: at-Tirmidhi, Imam Ahmed, an-Nasa'i and al-Hakim
There is a form of domestic violence sprouting and taking form through the entire planet. Unfortunately this is an issue you hardly hear about and view as being socially acceptable and normal behavior. This kind of domestic violence is very different from the other as it is from the wife being disrespectful and disobedient to her husband!! This is very dangerous and contagious behavior. . Understand the reality of this problem and the importance of respect and following the relationship dynamics in Islam. The husband has the most rights over their wives, so wives give them their due respect.
O Woman' you will not really get your way (have what you want from your husband) by rudely demanding things from him and/or trying to punish him by cutting any of your marital relations with him. This may come as a shock, that kind of behavior ruins your marriage, hurts you emotionally (as your husband most likely will not actually do what you want him too) and causes your husband to despise you and think of you very poorly. Allah is not pleased with any woman who upsets her husband so much that he goes to sleep angry at her. So, if you have been ruining your marriage through this kind of behavior for days, months or even years you are in a very sad state in deed.. Fear Allah and know this O woman, if you die in a state of doing this behavior most likely paradise will not be yours... So, now what? It's time to analyze your behavior and make an assessment of what should be changed immediately so that you do not lose out on a blissful, eternal abode in paradise.
"The Muslim women checks her attitude and behavior every now and then, correcting her self if she has done anything wrong or fallen short in some way. Thus her worship will bring about the desired results of purity, cleansing her of sins, and freeing her from the bonds of satan whose constant whispering may destroy a person. If she makes mistakes or stumbles off of the straight path, the true Muslim women soon puts it aright, seeks forgiveness from Allah (God), renounces her error and repents sincerely. This is the attitude of righteous, Allah (God) fearing women." excerpt from the book, The Ideal Muslimah.
Thank You so much for your time. Please forward this post to your relatives & friends and may Allah (SWT) reward you. For further information on Marital Advise
Thank You so much for your time. All the truth in here is from Allaah and mistakes are from satan the accursed and myself. Please forward this blog to your relatives & friends and may Allah (SWT) reward you. This post has been brought to you by: SurvivorsAreUs.com, SurvivorsAreUs.wordpress.com, TnT Islamic Books, Discount Promotions R Us, and SurvivorsAreUs Online Halaal Store!
The surprising, enlightening, and sometimes hard truths we all face after marriage, and how they teach us about what love really means. "...And they lived happily ever after."
What would you say if I told you there is a trend so severe and spread out through the earth so much that many will enter the hell fire, due to practicing it? And what if I told you there is a clear and fair warning to this trend, but most pay no heed to this warning? Would you like to know what I am talking about?
The Prophet Muhammad peace on him, said:
"I looked into Hell-fire, and the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful. ' It was asked, 'Did they disbelieve in (i.e. were ungrateful to) Allah?' He replied, 'They were ungrateful to their husbands and were ungrateful for favors and good deeds done for them. If you had always been good to one of them and then she saw something in you not to her liking, she would say, "I have never seen any good from you at all."
Al-Bukhari
"I saw Paradise and I reached out to take a bunch of its fruits. If I had managed to do so you would have eaten from it until the end of time. And I saw Hell, and I have never seen anything more terrifying. I saw that most of its inhabitants are women". (Mishkaat al-Masabeeh, 1/480)
These hadith here are as a fair and clear warning for women everywhere. So please stop and fear your Lord whom has created you from a blood clot and has stated that we are to give others their mutual rights that we demand from each other. The hell fire is such a hot and horrible place that we cannot even imagine it, but we can try.
Al-Bukhaari reports in his saheeh that Abu Hurayrah said:
"Hell complained to its Rabb, saying "O my Rabb, some parts of me have consumed others." So He allowed it to exhale twice, once in the winter and once in the summer. That is why you find extreme heat (in the summer) and extreme cold (in the winter)".
Al-Bukhaari also narrated from Abu Sa'eed (ra) that the Prophet (peace be upon him' ) said:
"Delay your prayers until it cools down, for the intensity of heat is from the exhaled air of Hell". (Saheeh al-Bukhaari, Kitaab Bad' al-Khalq, Baab Siffaat an-naar wa annaha makhluqah and Fath al-Baari 6/330. The author of Jaami' al-Usool 10/517 attributed these two reports to al-Bukhaari, Muslim and at-Tirmidhi).
The Rights of The Husband From The Wife:
In Islam it is very important that the wife give very much respect to her husband at all times, even when the husband in the wrong. This is the husbands right as Allah (God) has placed them as the maintainers and protectors over women and husbands should deal justly with their wives.
"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means."
Quran 4:34
"But men, have a degree (of responsibility) over them (women)."
Quran 2:228
Narrated Qays ibn Sa'd: The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him' said:
If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah. Reported by: at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Hibban Book 11, Number 2135
In Islam it is completely forbidden for a person to bow down to another; this is reserved for Allah (God) alone. This saying is just for wives to have an idea of their husbands right over them i.e.: The husband has the right to the last word in an argument. The wife should humble herself to her husband even when he is or (she thinks) he is wrong.
The Prophet Muhammad peace on him says:
"The right of a husband over his wife is that even if there is a wound in his body and she licks it, or if his nostrils drip mucous and blood and then she swallows them, she will still never pay her husband his due."
Transmitted by: al-Bazzar and ibn Hibban in his "sahih" authentic
The Prophet Muhammad peace on him said:
"Make sure that you obey your husband, because he is your Paradise or Hell-Fire (i.e. if you obey him you will enter Paradise, but if you disobey him you will enter Hell-fire.)
Transmitted by: at-Tirmidhi, Imam Ahmed, an-Nasa'i and al-Hakim
There is a form of domestic violence sprouting and taking form through the entire planet. Unfortunately this is an issue you hardly hear about and view as being socially acceptable and normal behavior. This kind of domestic violence is very different from the other as it is from the wife being disrespectful and disobedient to her husband!! This is very dangerous and contagious behavior. . Understand the reality of this problem and the importance of respect and following the relationship dynamics in Islam. The husband has the most rights over their wives, so wives give them their due respect.
O Woman' you will not really get your way (have what you want from your husband) by rudely demanding things from him and/or trying to punish him by cutting any of your marital relations with him. This may come as a shock, that kind of behavior ruins your marriage, hurts you emotionally (as your husband most likely will not actually do what you want him too) and causes your husband to despise you and think of you very poorly. Allah is not pleased with any woman who upsets her husband so much that he goes to sleep angry at her. So, if you have been ruining your marriage through this kind of behavior for days, months or even years you are in a very sad state in deed.. Fear Allah and know this O woman, if you die in a state of doing this behavior most likely paradise will not be yours... So, now what? It's time to analyze your behavior and make an assessment of what should be changed immediately so that you do not lose out on a blissful, eternal abode in paradise.
"The Muslim women checks her attitude and behavior every now and then, correcting her self if she has done anything wrong or fallen short in some way. Thus her worship will bring about the desired results of purity, cleansing her of sins, and freeing her from the bonds of satan whose constant whispering may destroy a person. If she makes mistakes or stumbles off of the straight path, the true Muslim women soon puts it aright, seeks forgiveness from Allah (God), renounces her error and repents sincerely. This is the attitude of righteous, Allah (God) fearing women." excerpt from the book, The Ideal Muslimah.
Thank You so much for your time. Please forward this post to your relatives & friends and may Allah (SWT) reward you. For further information on Marital Advise
Thank You so much for your time. All the truth in here is from Allaah and mistakes are from satan the accursed and myself. Please forward this blog to your relatives & friends and may Allah (SWT) reward you. This post has been brought to you by: SurvivorsAreUs.com, SurvivorsAreUs.wordpress.com, TnT Islamic Books, Discount Promotions R Us, and SurvivorsAreUs Online Halaal Store!
Sincerely & Gratefully
Halimah bint David
2 responses:
Asalamu Alaikum
Great reminders for us women. I need to keep these in mind insha'Allah. May Allah bless you ameen.
FiAmanAllah, Tara Umm Omar
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I am soo happy to see you here masha Allaah. Jazzaka Allaahu Khair!
Yeah they are good reminders for me too ;) Alhamdulillah ya rabbial alamiin.
I hope you will come back frequently insha Allaah.
Sincerely & Gratefully
Halimah bint David
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